I did my first guest blog post over at The Mommy Clause on Friday. Here’s a repeat in case you missed it!
Have you tried to find the perfect family Christmas tradition that everyone can participate in regardless of age or budget? Try writing Christmas letters!
My husband and I both grew up near the top of large families. When we first got married, it was fun to think of gifts for all our siblings still living at home. We quickly realized that this wasn’t possible on a newlywed budget. We decided that a a family night all wrapped up (a game or movie and treats) would be our standard Christmas gift to our siblings at home. It didn’t take long though, for our siblings to grow up and move out on their own.
How could we reach out to all our siblings at Christmas without breaking the bank?
We started with drawing names. That was fun, but we realized that our parents were buying gifts for some of the siblings to participate (which kind of defeated the purpose). Then came the question of: do you get a gift just for the sibling, or for their spouse and all their kids too’? Throw into the mix setting money limits and excluding gift cards…People started opting out after awhile. Too expensive, too much hassle, too far away, etc.
We really wanted to do something to bring our families closer for the holidays!
That was when our new tradition was born: Christmas Letters.
We drew names to create a rotating list and laid the rules: Write a letter. That’s it! No gift, no money, nothing but a heart felt letter.
These letters are perfect because everyone can participate. The money issue is completely eliminated for everyone from the young siblings still at home, to the newly wed couple tight on money. Anyone can write a letter!
I got a letter from my little brother last year. I have seen this brother maybe 3 times in the last 10 years since we live on opposite ends of the country. We hadn’t talked in a long time, and pretty much all I know about his family is what I see posted on Facebook and his family blog. Getting this letter was like a window into his world. We have since talked on the phone and through FaceTime. All this from a simple Christmas gift of a letter!
This will be our second year exchanging sibling letters, and I am SO EXCITED! My sister drew my name this year. She and I talk fairly often so she asked what to write to me about. I had recently read an article about “Live Lists” and wanted her opinion on it, so I’m excited to see if that’s what she will be writing to me about.
I can honestly say, out of all the Christmas traditions of gift giving we have had in the past, this is the one I love the most. I am looking forward to both writing and receiving my letter this year.
Thinking of starting your own sibling letter writing tradition? Here are some ideas of things to write about:
- Recap of the year
- Favorite memories of, or with the sibling
- Funny stories, inside jokes
- Bucket lists, live lists, goals for the new year
- Plans to get together
- Attributes you admire in your sibling
- Advice, counsel
- Favorite books, movies, games, traditions